Stop IT Mom!

I keep seeing on various social media web networking sites Single mothers posting the cutest pictures of their much-beloved children online. I admit some of these pictures are adorable, we give birth to some beautiful babies.  A mommy has every right to be proud of their children. Shoot we carry them nine whole months and go through sometimes hours of excruciating pain to bring them forth. (unless of course, you get the shot) And as joyous as  being a mom can be it is hard work. So yeah, you get bragging rights. 

But why the Hell do you put your Children on your public social networking sites? It's INSANE! Totally.  We talk about the safety of our children online and the turnaround and post pictures of them for any and all predators to get a good view. You put child safety apps on their phone and apps to monitor them on Facebook, Twitter,snap chat, Viber, etc but then you will post on a networking site, pictures of your personal good times with your children. What are you thinking? Or are you REALLY THINKING?  

The dating websites slay me. Why would you include pictures of your minor child on your dating site? Do you not know that there are men out there who target single mothers with children? There real live boogie men out there and they LIVE  on the Net. And please do not believe you can tell, because half the time you can't. They don't all come across as creepy or sleazy.  They are all shapes sizes, education levels and backgrounds. They can be fun, generous, so considerate, compassionate and oh so understanding of your challenges as a single MOM.  You get to comfortable and everybody is either in therapy or jail or both. 

Lessen your chances of picking up some real creep and take those pics down girls/boys it doesn't matter. take them down. Only share with family and very close friends, not friends of friends.

Predators troll the net. It is the New Market for everything especially child porn, even though your pictures may be fully clothed an innocent picture of swim trunks , or a bathing suit can be enticing to these degenerates. Protect yourself and your Babies, Don't advertise your children.

On Line Dating... Is It Worth It?

Here I am MZ PrissytPants with her opinion. right?   Lol. I was new to the on -line dating experience about 2 1/2 years ago.  Did not know what to expect or how much of myself to put out there what do you say? And is this really a thing only for losers? Well, to be honest, it is a real mix bag, and yes there are a whole lot of nuts.  (I'm gonna leave that lol).
I could say that you get  out of it what you put in but, I'm afraid that would not be quite accurate. What I have found is the majority of the individuals there are not quite what they seem, and most of what they post are exaggerations, or out and out lies. Some are kinda scary and most are just freaks. I have come across the rare breed that actually appears to be what they say they are and yet have some serious mental issues. It can be emotionally  disconcerting at times.
The things I have learned to watch for are  men who have been online for a number of years and never seem to leave.  The ones with more two baby mommas and have different children same ages with different women.  ( commitment issues) The ones who claim to co-parent  and baby momma toiletries are in the master bedroom bath, (still hanging on to a relationship). The ones who claim they want a serious relationship but don't understand that to have one you need to focus.
Truly it is a mixed situation you encounter and you have to be open and yet careful. And yes, from what I hear and understand men have the same issues. Both men and women have complained that they run into a lot of persons who are just there for multiple sexual partners. In theses times that is dangerous and irresponsible.  Don't expect too much honesty at first.
This is not to say there are no good men out there online a few really are. Some really do want that one Lady for his life. you just gonna have to go through a bunch a bunch of frogs first.