Here I am MZ PrissytPants with her opinion. right? Lol. I was new to the on -line dating experience about 2 1/2 years ago. Did not know what to expect or how much of myself to put out there what do you say? And is this really a thing only for losers? Well, to be honest, it is a real mix bag, and yes there are a whole lot of nuts. (I'm gonna leave that lol).
I could say that you get out of it what you put in but, I'm afraid that would not be quite accurate. What I have found is the majority of the individuals there are not quite what they seem, and most of what they post are exaggerations, or out and out lies. Some are kinda scary and most are just freaks. I have come across the rare breed that actually appears to be what they say they are and yet have some serious mental issues. It can be emotionally disconcerting at times.
The things I have learned to watch for are men who have been online for a number of years and never seem to leave. The ones with more two baby mommas and have different children same ages with different women. ( commitment issues) The ones who claim to co-parent and baby momma toiletries are in the master bedroom bath, (still hanging on to a relationship). The ones who claim they want a serious relationship but don't understand that to have one you need to focus.
Truly it is a mixed situation you encounter and you have to be open and yet careful. And yes, from what I hear and understand men have the same issues. Both men and women have complained that they run into a lot of persons who are just there for multiple sexual partners. In theses times that is dangerous and irresponsible. Don't expect too much honesty at first.
This is not to say there are no good men out there online a few really are. Some really do want that one Lady for his life. you just gonna have to go through a bunch a bunch of frogs first.
I could say that you get out of it what you put in but, I'm afraid that would not be quite accurate. What I have found is the majority of the individuals there are not quite what they seem, and most of what they post are exaggerations, or out and out lies. Some are kinda scary and most are just freaks. I have come across the rare breed that actually appears to be what they say they are and yet have some serious mental issues. It can be emotionally disconcerting at times.
The things I have learned to watch for are men who have been online for a number of years and never seem to leave. The ones with more two baby mommas and have different children same ages with different women. ( commitment issues) The ones who claim to co-parent and baby momma toiletries are in the master bedroom bath, (still hanging on to a relationship). The ones who claim they want a serious relationship but don't understand that to have one you need to focus.
Truly it is a mixed situation you encounter and you have to be open and yet careful. And yes, from what I hear and understand men have the same issues. Both men and women have complained that they run into a lot of persons who are just there for multiple sexual partners. In theses times that is dangerous and irresponsible. Don't expect too much honesty at first.
This is not to say there are no good men out there online a few really are. Some really do want that one Lady for his life. you just gonna have to go through a bunch a bunch of frogs first.
